Trick or Treat?
Hey!I had a dinner party at my house in Southampton to introduce my 6 summer house friends to another 2 groups of summer house friends. A friend introduced a guy from her house, who looks like Donald Sutherland in the TV series "24" to my house guest, a pretty 25 year old marketing exec in the beauty industry. They seem to get along well and after dinner she took a ride in his Porsche to meet us at the Social Life Magazine Party at Club Boutique in Bridgehampton.
At Boutique they start dancing and he said things to her in the dance floor that made her respond in nervous laughter. After a few minutes she walked away from him and started telling me that he had completely turned her off despite the fact that he's tall, looks great and has a cool job on Wall Street.
She said while they danced he said things like: she's the perfect age for him based on the formula of being half his age plus 5 years... he's tired of one night stands... he's "done" and is now looking for a long term relationship that could lead to kids and marriage... he hasn't been touched in a long time. He then started staring at her chest so she turned around. He then spanked her rear. As she ran away from him he asked if he could take her out to lunch.
What could this guy be thinking? Is he saying what he thinks women want to hear so he can have another one night stand or; Is he serious about finding a long term relationship?
Do you think I should introduce him to my buddy Brent Smith, a famous dating couch for men? Check out Brent's website: www.AbsolutePowerDating.com.
Post your opinions below!
posted by CassWorldNYC @ 10:29 PM
3 Comments:
I think this guy needs to lay off the drugs
If these guys would start looking for successful, attractive, smart women their own age, there wouldn't be a problem. I do, however, think the spanking was over the top. Now, on the other side, 25 year old women who go after older men should be prepared to deal with the "young studdress" fantasy, i.e., the fantasy that these young women will deal with anything to get a nice dinner or night on the town. Unfortunately, most of the older successful men are not equipped to deal with strong minded successful women who are around their age. Trust me, viagra is not the answer.
I think attraction is something that just happens. I can't see why any formula would ever work and even if it did, how would this guy expect this lady to be excited about it? This guy should learn to be a little more real and role with the scene a little more. If she's really into him, he shouldn't have to act like such a jack-ass to get attention. There comes a time when a guy should just know when to back off. There are some many opportunities out there so learn to chill out a bit. There are women who would probably eat up this kind of bullshit, so learn to know the difference before you degrade yourself and get black-listed.
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